Good point about WAR, although i've never been a big PvP fan...or even all that good at it.
WoTLK from what i've seen truely does look good. I also played on the PTR and wow! My main is a paly tank and just wow! We 5 maned kara up to nightbane, then 4 manned curator (30% in first evoc) then 3 manned aran with 1 resto druid, 1 enhancement shammy, 1 prot pallie. Servers went down before we coudl get to prince.
Rather happy with what they are doing in WoTLK. My problem is with the core of the game, it just isn't difficult/engaging enough in end game. End game is nearly 100% about raiding, there's not a lot of other stuff to do. At least in EQ there's AA points, mentoring down to do stuff you missed, very very indepth crafting skills, HQ's, leveling your guild, kitting out your house, etc, the list goes on. WoW, there's raiding. Doing 5 mans till your bored with them, and factioning, or doing dailys for money to raid with.
Personally, i think EQ2 would have been a much MUCH bigger success if the'd have started with the leveling speed they have now. That one thing may have changed it's history and given wow a bit of a run for it's money. A lot of people want to play endgame as the main game. Those that want to level slowly and enjoy the scenery on the way, just turn off XP every 2 or 3 levels.
Anyways, thats my views. The only thing that keeps me in WoW are the people. Which is why my delimma in EQ2 isn't quite how good it is, but a "I have two groups of friends" type delimma, but one group is playing a game that is rapidly becomeing too simple, or limited end game.
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unfortunatly SA:WoW has yet to reach critical mass for raiding. I am having serious mental anguish about what I am doing in that regard once woltk hits.
now that is a hard one. I think you'll have a lot of luck recruiting during the weeks after the WoTLK release. Also, don't forget 10 mans are a valid raid path in WoTLK. You may find 10 man raiding with the friends you have now is much better than 25 mans and the potential problems/pain that come with them.
-Surp